Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Goodbye Summer

I had it all planned out. Get all of the school preparations out of the way so we could get as much beach time/fun time as possible before school had to start. School started on a Wednesday this year, so we were going to take the boat out Monday, and say our goodbyes to the beach on Tuesday. Things sometimes don't work out as planned. The Thursday before, we went to the beach (of course). When we got home, I found out that my sweet Grandma had passed. I knew Grandma (Grammy as I called her) was not doing well, and was suffering greatly from Parkinson's. She had a calm passing, as my grandfather was putting her in bed for a nap, she gently laid her head back and took her last breath. I did not think I would be as sad as I have been. Sad, just because I miss her. I don't mean to hurt anyone's feelings, but she is the best Grandma EVER, and I am not sure what I did so great to be rewarded with her! I can not recall one time I heard her raise her voice (a trait I did not get from her). I remember when I was little and would get in trouble by my mom, I would cry for my grandma. I know my grammy has always loved me, she showed me constantly, and I could feel it all the time. Here are some of my fun memories with my sweet grammy.You can tell by this next picture that she didn't love the style I gave her, but I remember being so proud of it, and she acted like it was great!Here is a copy of a paper I had to write in Middle School. I think the topic was "Who Do You Admire?" My paper was about my grandma.Here is a picture of her doing my Jane Fonda workout video with me....
Grandma loved to play the piano, and one of my favorite things to do with her was to sing while she played.....one of my most favorite memories......
I had no idea that this picture was taken, or that she had done this. I was probably about 15 or so, and there she is "loving me"....typical....So, instead of going to the lake and beach, we packed the car and headed to Orem, Utah. I was grateful that Scott could take the time off of work and take us. Grandma's funeral was very nice, and you could tell that she made friends easily. Here is a picture before the funeral with one of Grandma's paintings (another talent I did not receive from her), some of her pictures, and a huge bowl of cinnamon bears, her favorite...... The next picture is of my mom, her brother, some guy (I have no idea who he is) and two of my Grandma's sisters......Grandma looks an awful lot like both of them, so when I saw them at the funeral, it was like seeing my grandma, they are beautiful women with gorgeous skin (hoping I get that!)
The song that I have on my playlist right now is a song that my grandma listened to over and over again on the busride she took to marry my grandfather (he was in the military during the war, and she had to travel to him) . It is called "Sentimental Journey", and I got to play it on the piano as they took her casket out of the chapel. Even though I had not visited Grandma for a while, I miss her everyday, and can't wait until we hug again.


I forgot to mention that Grandma is 1 of 11 children, many of her siblings have already left this earth, and I know their reunion was very sweet!

8 comments:

Pam said...

Sorry for your loss! She was a beautiful woman and I love the pictures of you and her together. Priceless! What a lovely tribute!!

Jody C. said...

Kaye she's so beautiful! i would have loved to hear you play that song on the piano...and i am sure your grandma was so pleased and proud of you. thank you for sharing.

Heather said...

sniff sniff. That was the nicest and sweetest post about your grandma. I love the music playing in the background. I am so sorry for your loss like you said it will be so great when you can hug her again. BTW I love she did Jane Fonda with you, that is the best.

Juli said...

Kaye, what a nice tribute to your "grammy"! what a sweet collection of pictures, fun memories and even music of hers, very cool! and by the way, you for sure inherited the beautiful skin!! xoxo

AJsGirls said...

That was so tender. I can only hope to leave such a legacy. She was a stunningly beautiful woman.

ahixon said...

Oh kaye. I'm sorry.

Amanda and Ryan McCarty said...

What a sweet tribute. I love the pictures of you and Grandma. Those would have been great for the DVD. It is sad that we had to finally get together during a funeral. We need to get together for a happy occasion.
BTW Jackson misses Charlie. He thought he was pretty cool.

Amanda and Ryan McCarty said...

What a sweet tribute. I love the pictures of you and Grandma. Those would have been great for the DVD. It is sad that we had to finally get together during a funeral. We need to get together for a happy occasion.
BTW Jackson misses Charlie. He thought he was pretty cool.

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